Yesterday evening, one was with their girlfriend on the phone when a message came though saying “Hello”. In response I replied “Hi, how can I help you ?”. The guy replied “Where are you messaging from ?”. I replied “The UK, how can be of service ?” – as I wanted to get to the point of why he was messaging.
His response was “Give me your Whats app Number ?”. I replied “No.”
However, if you wish to be a member of Urban Glam Life and support us you are more than welcome. We are not a dating or escort service.
I thought this guy would take the hint and get the message. What baffled me even more is that I had given him our website which explains in detail what we do. We are not in the business of giving out Whats app numbers. We are clearly NOT a Dating/Escort service and have no intention to be. We simply “BLOG” and try to sell our merchandise to keep this platform going.
When I tried to over emphasize we are a digital platform and bloggers, he then proceeded to call me a Nigger! before you jump to conclusions this guy is not a White Man, he was a middle aged Asian man. He continued to give me a tirade of abuse and in the end I won’t lie I had enough. So I told him about himself. How can you spend your leisure time scrolling the interest asking whoever to give them your Whats app number. Its crazy! I mean I was once a horny teenager but my Parents and Bible upbringing showed me that there is a limit to you pursuing a woman. Once she says she is not interested you move on. I was fuming! I was like, how can you visit this platform and automatically assume you are entitled to ones number, personal information. I mean one guy even came outright and said he wanted to take me out to dinner. When I explained this is a Male Owner, he still continued thinking it was a lie. I was like “Bruh” take your thirsty shit somewhere else. Nuts!
I shared the experience with my girlfriend and she said “Welcome to the Club”. She explained you have just experienced a tip of the iceberg in terms of what women experience. She went on to say the amount of men who think they have the right to send Dick Pics, demand for your number online is crazy. And when you decline they become abusive.
So here are Urban Glam Life we have decided to start our own Petition to raise awareness and to try and put a curb in this sort of behavior. Before you make a request use 2 minutes and a ounce of intelligence to figure out wither this is the platform to be making such requests. Ask yourself, is this platform actually selling Sex. Are the women on here Prostitutes or Sex workers.
Because for the LAST AND FINAL TIME!
URBAN GLAM LIFE IS NOT A PORN, DATING OR ESCORT SERVICE.
Please sign our petition and spread the word that “URBAN GLAM LIFE” is a platform for BEAUTY, BODY POSITIVSM, FOR THE CULTURE”.
We do not have any ulterior motive. We treat all our members with respect! Please do the same to us and those who make this platform what it is.
We do not deserve sexual harassment or abuse because we do not want to conform to your needs or satisfy your assumptions. There are alternative platforms and we are not one of them.
Thank you for taking the time to read this and I hope this does not come across as a rant! We are just sick and tired of promoting something we are and people under whatever influence assuming we are something else.
THIS HAS TO STOP NOW.
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